–George Bernard Shaw
George Bernard Shaw was an impressive man. He is mostly known today for his plays, such as Pygmalion, which served as the inspiration for the hit Broadway musical My Fair Lady. However, Shaw was also an important figure in literary criticism, journalism, and economics. That last one might seem a bit out of place. After-all, drama deals with emotions and feelings, whereas economics uses quantitative data to draw conclusions. However, Shaw saw an essential unifying truth about both the arts and social sciences; they both attempt to define how people interact with one another. In both his fiction and nonfiction works, Shaw dealt with how people attempt to get their point across while at the same time completely misunderstanding each other. He knew that communication was a very difficult thing.
Shaw wrote in the first half of the twentieth century, long before tweets, instant messages, even before email. Yet, he nailed the absolute indeterminacy involved with modern communication. Have you ever paused just before hitting “send” on that email to a friend or colleague? Why did you pause? Most likely because you didn’t know if your correspondence would be interpreted as you meant it. When Shaw wrote the quote that begins this piece, he was questioning whether or not people sitting across the dinner table could ever truly understand each other. Now, with the advent of instant electronic communication, his question has become infinitely compounded.
So what’s the answer? Obviously we can’t throw our hands in the air and refuse to communicate because we risk being misinterpreted. The trick is to understand that people will misunderstand you, and that you must get your point across anyway. If you keep these points in mind, the importance of good communication becomes elevated. When you have regard for those two things—the importance of your message and the ability of other people to get that message wrong—then you stand a better chance of your point getting across. If you don’t pay heed to how you frame your message in light of the intended audience, then you very well might be doing nothing more than creating the illusion of communication.














